One of Elliot's goals for his service project to "help the homeless, one ninja at a time" was to raise enough funds to bring at least one homeless person away from the street and into a safe, permanent home. It was an enormous, almost impossible goal for a child of seven. I attempted to explain the concept of how much money that would take, not to discourage him from trying, but to provide a realistic perspective. At age seven, Elliot thought that maybe one hundred dollars could buy someone a house. His response was to use the first thirty dollars to purchase a tent.
Perhaps this is cliche', but with God, all things are possible. ALL things.
Five months after opening up Elliot's Ninja Art he has achieved and gone beyond that goal. It turns out that it wasn't necessary for him to actually earn thousands of dollars, but to raise awareness in our community.
Six homeless families are now preparing to move into six apartments. It didn't happen as a result of the television news broadcast and Elliot's interview, or the newspaper article in the Greensboro Voice. One day we acted on the suggestion of Elliot's Taekwondo master to make a flyer. We made several copies, and Richard took one to work.
Two weeks ago, I received an unexpected phone call from a gentleman at Richard's workplace who wanted to order a custom painting. Our conversation, catching me by surprise, was brief. Later, Richard came home and explained that this man was very interested in Elliot's mission, and also requested contact information for people we have met along the way who work to provide services and shelter to people experiencing homelessness.
This week, we learned that this man is the owner of an apartment complex with six vacancies that he is willing to open up for families on the street.
We are continually humbled and awestruck by the events that have been unfolding through Elliot's project. I once believed that in order to be successful, one had to land a respectable career, work hard, and continually earn more money to establish financial security. I didn't expect that in order to be successful, one could simply encourage and support the blossoming of a child's beautiful idea.
The one thing that helped me to avoid my imagined and long hoped-for professional life was the thought that I would have to make lots of childcare arrangements and hire help to keep up the house. I'm learning to let go of that artificial and idealistic image, and accept that I am where I am right now for a very important reason. I remind myself that I want to be here in my second hand clothing, with no important, demanding, exhausting, stressful job to do. Even if some days at home can be just like that.
Time keeps moving along and hopefully I move and grow with it. Last night while lying awake in the middle of the night, I realized that I have a habit of believing that life as it appears now, will stay the same. A memory of Emily and I playing basketball in the dark on a clear fall night came into my head. While we shared the magic of how the night sky can release one from inhibitions, from constant tasking, from the assumed roles we take on during the day, the kid in me came out to play. I didn't mentally forecast her move up north. I thought we would always have time to shoot some hoops under the stars.
And now, I keep thinking that it will be like this forever, Elliot and I doing "school" in the mornings. His handwriting forever the same. His pencil dropping habit. His lack of focus on things he really doesn't like to do. I forget to forecast that one day, he'll be signing his name in a flash, grabbing the car keys and heading out the door. My prayer is this: please let him take what he's learning now about impossible dreams and God be a seed firmly planted. Let it be a perennial or an evergreen. Let this miracle of six families be a reference point for constructing big dreams in the face of so much reality.
I literally got teary reading this, Jenny. Teary at the sheer beauty of Elliot's idea coming to fruition, of the six homeless families finding respite, of Elliot, like David with his small stones, setting out to slay a giant.
ReplyDeleteI also love the wisdom of your words. So very true.
Dear Shelly, I'm full of gratitude for the loving support and encouragement that you continually share with us. You are a celebrated friend in our household without ever having walking through the door. You walked in through our hearts, through your example of God's love.
DeleteJennifer, that is really fantastic! I also didn't realise before this that Eliott was so young.
ReplyDeleteI must say, that's a worthy cause you have been undertaking and it's wonderful to read of your commitment to enhancing other people's lives.
It's hard for a parent to imagine their young children one day growing up, but it happens and I hope the same for my children that you wish for Eliott.
Hi Duncan, thanks for stopping by today! Elliot turned eight three months after beginning his service project. I know that you and Fidelia are providing the most supportive, loving and educational foundation for your two beautiful girls and know they will take that with them wherever they go in life!
DeleteHi Jenny. I'm all behind with blogging again I'm afraid! This was an inspirational post about how' big oaks from little acorns grow! ' Wasn't that fantastic how all this came about and all, really, because of Elliot's Homeless Project. Well done to him I say. I am sure that he will do great things when he is older. He really does seem to have a very caring heart, and at such a young age too. I know that you must be SO proud of him my friend. Take care.
ReplyDeleteGod bless Elliot's efforts !
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