This work was my passion but it was also intensely demanding and stressful. Though I loved children and was committed to a life of caregiving and teaching, I was drowning in an overload of demands that needed my immediate attention. This job was also the reason why Emily ended up being an only child for such a long time.
I was also terrified of having a son.
Even though I grew up with two completely loving and wonderful brothers, the idea of parenting a son after my experience with nanny-hood made me inwardly faint.
Eight years later, what I trembled to imagine came true.
But by that time, my whole world had changed. I had developed an open mind to God's plan, whatever that meant for me.
So God gave me what I feared the most. When my heart was the most open, when I trusted my higher power, when I dared to take a huge risk in love,
Richard and I became parents of a beautiful son. I don't believe this was merely a result of science and chemical reactions.
For the first time, Emily experienced what it felt like to have a brother. The love, respect and appreciation that I have for Emily expanded as I watched her accept this new family development, which might have caused hurt and jealousy. Instead of being resentful, she just loved her baby brother and celebrated with us.
Infused within the miracle came the joy and security of taking this leap together. Richard has been the most incredibly committed, supportive and engaged father and continues to be Elliot's best friend, role model and teacher.
|Play-doh shoes, hats and scarves for toy animals are just one example of Elliot's creative inventions.|
We love you Elliot, more than words can say. Happy 10th Birthday! It's been a happy, love filled and exciting decade for all of us.